Anonymous asked: First of all your voice is amazing
I dont know if you do advice but i need some desperately haha
My ex boyfriend who i still like is in a relationship at the moment but the other night he spilled his heart out to me and confessed he liked me more and he really misses me, but we left that conversation unanswered and havent spoken since but hes still with her. I dont know whether to give up or to wait till i see him next for him to say something?
Thank you anon!
I haven’t gotten advice in such a long time, wow. I think you should let it go with the flow. If he really did like you more than his girlfriend, he’d leave her for you. Of course you won’t do anything to break them apart, so just let time tell :) Do you love him? If you love him, tell him. The rest is up to him, he either leaves her or he doesn’t. Don’t give up on him, but at the same time, don’t wait for him. Carry on with your life.
Only take something if you know you really cannot live without it <3 good luck!
Anonymous asked: I really need help :( I have a huge case of social anxiety whenever i go out or see people or eat in public, and its ruining my life. i tremble, sweat, become nauseous, almost vomit, before and a few days after i go out to the point where i cant eat for days and i dont know what to do :(
Hey gorgeous! I’m not very good with anxiety as I have no experience whatsoever, but I’ll try and give some advice.
How did this develop? Maybe you could slowly work towards overcoming it? Try having a friend over every now and again just to hang out, or try having video calls on skype with people? Spend more time with yourself too.
It all comes down to how you view yourself. Spend some time with yourself and don’t forget that you’re beautiful. There is no need to feel like people are constantly judging you. If anything, I’m sure they’re wondering why you’re so gorgeous. To be honest, everyone’s mind probably thinks and feels the same. Everyone, particularly females, think people are constantly judging them. Don’t let it get to you! :)
But like I said, my inexperience is no match, so if you really have problems, you should seek professional help. But I wish you all the best lovely <3
Anonymous asked: I have these brown Steve Madden combat boots but I have no idea how to wear them! Help?!
A white button-up sheer blouse tucked into a pair of beige high-waisted trousers/pleated skirt. Or a Brown leather pair of high-waisted shorts. Leather is definitely in. You could always wear a button up sleeveless blouse with a collar and denim shorts if you want to be comfortable or casual. Just as long as you balance out the brown leather, by wearing a brown leather messenger bag for example :)
Hope these ideas helped a little! xx
asked: I had a question about Fall trends.
I go to a private school so we have uniforms and closed toes shoes but can have anytype of closed shoes purses hair bracelets, necklace, jackets, ect.
I was wondering if you had any advice on what would look good for this school year :D thank you <3 kayla
Hey beautiful :) You are so lucky!
Match anything monochrome with bright bright saturated colors.
Fall 2011 trends
- leather skirts
- big graphic stripes
- graphic tartan
Try a pair of high-waisted shorts paired with a belt for a flattering shape, and bright tartan button up top, with a bright colored blazer to go over it. Try a pair opaque tights and brogues to match? I would always carry a trenchcoat because you never go wrong, also it’s sleek and sophisticated. You could carry a tote or a messenger bag. I think you should carry something practical enough for school :)
Another look you can try is a loose blouse (wear something warm underneath), tucked into a black high-waisted leather skirt (a bit pleated, not tight or anything), and a waist belt. Ankle boots (no heels) to match, for comfort for school, or if you like brogues, try that with long socks? I love brogues, I live to wear them. They’re perfect shoes. :)
Hope this helps a little! x
Anonymous asked: Hi (:
I'm going out to dinner for my birthday sometime in the next week or so, and since it's winter I'd like to wear my black jeans, but I'm not sure what top and shoes to put with it. What do you think?
Hey beautiful :) How old are you?
Are your black jeans highwaisted? Are you tall or smaller?
It depends what the occasion is. Try an oversized jumper with platform heeled ankle boots, and a black or bright coloured (they’re in) messenger bag :)
If you don’t like big jumpers, you could wear a grey woolen knit sweater underneath a leather jacket and a scarf. Keep the same shoes, because I think they’d look great with your jeans no matter what the occasion is :) But if you don’t like heels, you could always wear combat boots.
I hope this gives you a few ideas? Happy birthday in advance!!! xx
Anonymous asked: i'm seeing a david archuleta concert, i'm 17, and what kind of top would you think would go best with some dark blue jeans? and what shoes? thank you!
Hey darling :)
Maybe you could try a loose toga (one shoulder shirt) with a loose sleeve and tuck it in, some comfortable wedges if you can stand it, or ankle boots? Or try a white button-up sleeveless collared blouse tucked in with a small cross-body bag and ankle boots (no heels) to match?
Wear something comfortable, because you want to enjoy the concert. :) xx
Anonymous asked: Hey, I'm currently building my wardrobe from scratch and I just cannot decide between girly flowery chiffon dresses and grungy black leather jackets. LOL What should I do? What types of clothing should I be buying? What are the basics? I'm clueless. All my clothes are hand-me-downs. Thank you!
Hey babe :) You might not get everything in this list, but if you have at least one of each, you will never go wrong.
Fashion Staples for your wardrobe:
- Block coloured singlets
- Tank tops
- Cropped tops
- Loose (sheer) blouses
- A pair of highwaisted denim shorts
- A pair of black highwaisted fitting tight mid-thigh skirt (goes well with nearly everything for parties, you can mix and match)
- A sleeveless or 3/4 sleeved fitting little black dress
- A chiffon dress
- A maxi dress
- A pair of black skinny jeans (can be highwaisted)
- A cropped leather jacket
- A cute light cardigan
- A brown leather messenger bag
- A black leather sling cross-body bag
- A studded bag (if you like studs, this is the ultimate accessory)
- A clutch
- A pair of wedged heels
- A pair of simple heels
- A pair of combat boots
- A pair of ankle boots
- A pair of gladiator sandles
- A pair of ballet flats or brogues
- A simple gold chain necklace (accessories vary according to style)
- You’ll never go wrong with a statement watch :)
Hope this gives you a few ideas!
Anonymous asked: I'm going to a 'black&white' themed party. It's semi casual I guess cuz I can wear jeans. But I have nothing to wear and I need advice. I'm also on a budget!! So what can I wear that'll make me look nice and kind if different..? No one there is gonna know me....
Ohh, wear a white top with a black highwaisted skirt? You won’t go wrong and you’ll look sexy at the same time. Wear heels or ankle boots :) If you’re more of a jeans person, try highwaisted black skinny jeans and a white big billowy loose top that hangs over one shoulder. Like a toga, sort of. And tuck that into your jeans. Wear black gladiator sandles? These outfits both go well with a white or black sling crossbody bag. I think go for the black :) xx
Anonymous asked: Exactly. We both have shit timing. Everytime I've found somebody else, he's found to love me that way again and everytime he finds someone else i find how to love him like that again and arghfkjfafjdkfa. Except this time I can't really forgive him and mostly myself for letting it happen. Sooo now I just try to avoid him as much as I can without making anything noticeable.
I hate bad timing :( But everything happens for a reason. Maybe it’s to show you that you both like each other? Or that it wasn’t supposed to happen? I often fall for my bestfriends who are male. It really sucks. But I’m too afraid to do or say anything because it would ruin our amazing friendship. I have already ruined one. My last relationship was a disaster. If you really wanted each other, I guarantee you will be together in the end. Time will come, don’t you worry :) <3
Anonymous asked: i hate my best friend and i still love him at the same time. it's really annoying..
Why do you hate him? I guess no matter how hard you try to hate someone you will always love them if you care about them.
Anonymous asked: I really hope you don't mind me telling you this because I just really need to get this out and I saw you answering people's messages. So whenever I break up with someone, it's always because I guess your feelings for them slowly erode and it's either you getting hurt or your boyfriend getting hurt.
So I really got sick and tired and I told myself not to go out with anyone for quite a long while. However earlier this week, I started talking to this guy who was in my year level and like... we never spoke before. I didn't realise how many things we shared in common, everyday we talk and it's only been a week. I feel like I've known him forever, anyways, I don't want to sound too cocky and everything but I really do think he likes me and I think I have feelings for him. He actually is the best guy I've met, I know this might sound stupid but he might actually be... perfect? I don't know what to do, should I stop this whole relationship nonsense rule and tell him I like him or.... keep low?
Aww anon! Go for it! It’s great to take a rest from relationships. Once you’re back, you notice finer things in people :) There is nothing wrong with finding the perfect guy. Your senses tell you he’s great, so why not give it a go? After all, you only live once, and life is so short, so live it to the fullest. You may never find another guy like this, so take this opportunity while you have it in your fingertips. Tell him you like him, because guys really appreciate courageous girls :) xx
Anonymous asked: I thought he did considering he was about to cry when he broke up with me, but then again, i dont know if he was telling the truth as it wasnt face to face but im pretty sure he has gotten over me by now. he doesnt speak to me and i dont speak to him as i fear ill be rejected or unanswered. i dont think ill ever get back with him, i just dont think its a possibility. as much as i wish it was, i think its one relationship ill have to truly move on from.
thank you so much lovely
Aww, well everything happens for a reason, so just follow your heart and what you feel is right :) Don’t overthink it. Maybe it’s best for you to move on? If he really cared about you, he’d fight for you, and do anything to be with you. xx
Anonymous asked: if i come off anon, would you maybe please give me some advice/answer privately? xx
Definitely! I love anons, but of course if you don’t want people reading your private issues, you can message me off anon :) I won’t post it. x
Anonymous asked: i saw answered messages about how do you know if a guy likes you. but my story is different
this guy and i started talking and at first hed ask me who i liked, i said no one, not wanting to say it was him straight away as i didnt want to scare him off and so i asked him back who he liked and he said this girl who was his ex. we kept talking and he would always ask me who i liked and i still declined. once when i asked him back he made me guess who and he gave me all hints and there was only one person left.me. we dated and after a month on valentines day, he broke up with me. i dont know if he actually did "love" me like he said he did or i was a rebound, to get over his ex. im just so puzzled over it. if you dont have an answer thats fine. i just wanted to get this out.
I answer all of these :) That’s really cute, but if he really “loved” you, he wouldn’t have broken up with you after a month? Just be careful you’re not another rebound.
If he likes you now, he’d make effort to see you, and talk to you or spend time with you. Obviously he is very curious about your love interest. And most likely hoping it will be him. I’m sure a guy doesn’t constantly ask you who you like unless they have at least a bit of interest in you. :) You should be careful with an ex though. But you never know.. exes do come back.
If he hurt you, you need to make sure he will never hurt you ever again. x
Anonymous asked: so it was all looking good, after seeing him on the train last week he hadn't text me/spoke to me since. then he texts tonight saying he hopes the last week of school hasn't been too bad and whether i want to have breakfast this sunday? what do i do? thank you!
ps: i'm the one who has friend who is a guy that likes me, but i'm not attracted to him nor do i like him that way and i dont want to hurt his feelings xxxx
Hey babe! Of course I remember you :) Ah how scary. Just say Sunday is family day and your parents made plans :) This is getting out of hand, he really likes you. It’s hard not to hurt people. I wish there was an easier way than having to tell him you don’t like him. Or maybe he genuinely only likes you as a friend?
I think he’s not picking up any hints. If he mentions anything about liking you, you have to tell him that you just want to be friends. You don’t have to avoid him all the time. If he asks you out to breakfast, you can say “we’re just friends right? :)”. It’s probably the least hurtful thing you could say. x